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Why the "Sin" Argument doesn't work

 

"Conservative Christians often label homosexuality as a sin to drive home their position.  The problem is, homosexual conduct is listed with a number of  sexual practices many couples enjoy including fellatio, masturbation, fantasy and sodomy between husband and wife. And some not so healthy practices like sex before marriage and adultery.

The Bible does not afford a different degree of sin to any of these behaviors, rather it labels them all as such.

Another important lesson the Bible teaches is found in the story of Mary Magdalene at which point Jesus states "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone."

We cannot be selective sinners and expect others to adhere to our opinions. The fact is, if you follow the Bible as an absolute, the intimation of those using the sin argument about homosexuality, prior to condemning other's behavior as sin and yours as righteous, you must first be free of sin yourself.

Christianity and Judaism teach that ultimately God holds the power to determine whether we are righteous or not.  As humans, we are not given the authority to condemn others in His name.  He alone reserves that right.

It is for this reason that an argument of righteousness against a group of people whom practice a different sin than yours can only fail.  It is the ultimate hypocrisy and the quickest way to alienate a society against an idea."

Laura Dawn Lewis


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The North American Man-Boy Love Association, or NAMBLA, included this quote from Califia-Rice on its website (until they were forced to take the site down in May 2002  after the Catholic Priest scandal began gaining momentum):

 "Boy-lovers and the lesbians who have young lovers are the only people offering a hand to help young women and men cross the difficult terrain between straight society and the gay community. They are not child molesters. The child abusers are priests, teachers, therapists, cops and parents who force their stale morality onto the young people in their custody. Instead of condemning pedophiles for their involvement with lesbian and gay youth, we should be supporting them."

 

 

 
Commentary
March 2002

Gays, Lesbians, Tolerance,
Schools and Children
By Laura Dawn Lewis

For the past 3 decades the gay rights movement has been gaining ground and pushing an agenda of social acceptance for their lifestyle.   More films are produced promoting the lifestyle, books are geared directly at the choice and it has become so prevalent in erotic literature that you’d be hard pressed to find anything that does not contain at least one lesbian scene. 



 

Should Elementary Age Students be required to Watch Plays Advocating Acceptance of Homosexuality?

Should parents be forced by the State against their wishes to have their children taught such?

BOTTOM LINE

In 2000, the California Student Safety and Violence Prevention Act, Assembly Bill 537 was passed. This bill added sexual orientation and gender discrimination to the state's nondiscriminatory policy.

Politically correct speech has branded anyone who disagrees with this lifestyle as homophobic, fanatical or right-wing religious.  Most recently in February 2002, eight parents brought a suit against the Novato Unified School District in Marin County, California. During February and March 2001 the school district brought in the Los Angeles-based pro-homosexuality theater company Fringe Benefits to perform a series of skits called "Cootie Shots: Theatrical Inoculations Against Bigotry." Three of the skits included overt mentions of “Gay is Okay”.  The students were second graders and the stated objective of the play was to address issues of discrimination and prejudice.  Prior to the Marin County presentations this same play was performed in the LA Unified School District during 2000 and recent state laws intimate that this curriculum should be included in all public schools. 

The parents suing stated they filed opt-out forms for their children releasing them from any classes on family life and other issues that might conflict with their religious training and beliefs.  The Novato parents assert these opt-out forms were ignored.  TOP

Question: Can a state, against your expressed wishes, dictate to you the morals and values your children are to accept by bending to special interest groups and allowing these groups to instruct your children in their beliefs? 

Take away the homosexuality for a moment and look at the issue from a different angle.  Consider your own opinion on the abortion issue.  What if the side that you disagree with  under the guise of tolerance performed cute skits before your children against your wishes in an effort to impress upon your children their views and acceptance of their position as the only correct position?  And what if you expressed in writing to the school board that this wasn't appropriate and you did not want your children to be exposed to this because it was against your own principles and the values you raise your children by?  And what if some member of the school faculty decided that your opinions were wrong and went ahead and brought in the pro or anti group against your explicit wishes and required your children to attend? You discovered this after the fact. This is what happened, and even if you are pro-homosexuality, the issue here is alarming.

In this case it is the homosexual community pushing their agenda on children too young to have the cognitive skills to differentiate cause and effect.  +The state of California has decided that it has a responsibility to promote this lifestyle as healthy and normal.  By doing so, it has  ignored the expressed wishes of parents stating they do not want their children being taught this because it is against their morals, values and beliefs. TOP

Why the Parents
are Concerned

Any parent with children under fourteen should be acutely aware of what groups and messages are being presented to their children.  Children do not develop critical thinking skills until age fourteen.  This is one reason why children that kill or perform violent acts are not prosecuted as adults. 

Their minds do not have the ability to fully comprehend the ramifications of their actions. They cannot reason like adults and they cannot question like adults.  This makes children's minds vulnerable and this is the reason special interests want access to small children. 

Create a generation preconditioned to your way of thinking and eventually you'll have a population ready to abide by your wishes.  What better way than to reach children than through entertainment?  What better way to mold a future society to your agenda than to impress them before they have the ability to comprehend cause and effect, sexuality and the adult issues involved?  TOP

Bottom line. 


Every person on this planet wants to be accepted for who they are and be told that whatever they do is good. As a society, we've catered to emotion rather than principles and we bend with the discussions deemed politically correct. Politically correct does not equate with morality, justice or what is intrinsically right.  It equates with what society is lead to believe by peer pressure or provocative influencers capitalizing on the squeaky wheel syndrome. TOP

Many of the problems we face as a nation are the direct result of apathetic parents and a loss of influence and guidance by these parents in their children's lives.  The Novato parents have taken an active interest in raising their children and the state is now undermining their ability to raise their children. These are not religious right-wingers, zealots or gay-bashers.  They are not prejudice, close-minded or irrational.  They are parents who want to raise their children according to a value system and morality they believe.  

Freedom of religion is a fundamental right in the United States, and like it or not, the Bible does direct Christians to observe and acknowledge homosexual behavior and premarital sex (homosexual or heterosexual) as wrong.  Christianity teaches to hate the sin but love the sinner.  Christianity teaches that we are all sinners to varying degrees and that individual commandments do not carry more weight than others.  Break one commandment and it is equivalent in God's eyes to any other commandment.  The Bible makes no distinction. 

The state, by not adhering to the parent's expressed wishes, is interfering with their right to observe and practice their religion and raise their children as they see fit.  In all likelihood they would have the same issues if Planned Parenthood or Playboy came in to teach their young children about heterosexuality against their wishes or promoted premarital sex to seven year olds.

 

Regardless of your feelings about homosexuality, the issue here is your rights as a parent in raising your children and quelling the tide of special interests groups that want to educate your children to their belief system.  Even if homosexuality isn't the issue you disagree with, one day you may be forced upon by one you do.  On that day, what will be your recourse? TOP


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Recent examples in the media used by special interests to increase access to children and change public opinion:

From an IVY League School:

A story this week by the Newhouse News Service noted that a handful of academics at mainstream universities are arguing in academic journals, books and online that at least some sex between adults and children should be acceptable, especially when children consent to it. Posted: March 29, 2002, 1:00 a.m. Eastern, By Art Moore:

Article: BRAVE NEW SCHOOLS
Pedophile advocate featured at university Penn State's latest controversial event includes sadomasochist author.
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"Children are the last bastion of the old sexual morality," wrote one of the trailblazers for this view, Harris Mirkin, an associate professor of political science at the University of Missouri-Kansas City.


Social conservatives aware of efforts to legitimize adult-child sex have publicly expressed horror. On his radio show broadcast to hundreds of Christian stations, psychologist and author James Dobson said the intent is to "make boys accessible" to men.
Mark O'Keefe, Newhouse News Service, Mar 26 2002

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The Novato School District Case Summary:

September 2000 the parents of seven Novato children had filed school "opt- out" forms allowing their children to be excused from any classes on family life and other issues that might conflict with their religious training and beliefs.


P
arents state they received no prior written notice of the presentation of Cooties.
 


S
chool officials stated after the assemblies that the opt-out forms were "missing."

 

The Parents formed a group called Citizens for Parental Rights  and are represented by lawyers from Pacific Justice Institute
 

Assembly
 Bill 537

The California Student Safety and Violence Prevention Act of 2000

This bill  changed California's education code by adding sexual orientation and gender to the nondiscrimination policy. The bill covers dis-crimination and harassment in the state's public schools and any school receiving state funding.

 

Bay Area Discovery Museum of Sausalito promoted the program into the school.  The museum is devoted to  "The bridging of cultures ... and where diverse families and children learn from one another."


Prior to performing in Marin County, the Theatrical Troop, Fringe Benefits performed Cooties for the LA Unified School District in the fall of 2000. No objections by LA Parents currently appear in public records.

 
 

 


 


 

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