There are millions of controlling, angry, paranoid, rude women who defy the odds and not only woo someone in courtship, but also get married to often end up divorced and right back where they started.
Evidence for this is all around us. Unfortunately, most of the reality television shows, such as Pregnant in Heels, that showcased a woman named "Donna" who epitomized all of the wrong things about any human being. This woman was so focused on installing 64 closed circuit cameras in her home. Then she set-up tests for people entering her home and erupted after some possible baby nurses that were interviewed, didn't pan-out. All this woman could say is that "it's not easy, it's not easy!" This from a woman who liked to say "you work for me" with plenty of money to throw around, but just as much attitude. Frankly, it is a showcase of everything that is wrong with women today.
The short patience and self-important narcissism seems to be entertaining, setting-up so many more offerings of "Donna" clones that appear in all of the "Housewives of" series. Those viewers who feel sympathy, attachment and can identify with these vapid women, are most likely just like them or for some sad reason want to be just like them. Ewww!
Most of the women, Bethany Frankel included, seem to like to treat their men like possessions, flinging comments like "how can you train my husband", or "only if he leaves will I renovate the house", etc... Their needs, including everything from clothing, gifts, food, vacations, money, sexual satisfaction (rarely, since most of these women have no libido left-over after all of their anger, resentment, cynicism and whatever else has damaged their characters), you name it. It's easy picking when assessing what is wrong with these women and I understand that it may make for good viewership, the more dysfunctional and insulting they are, the higher the ratings and advertising revenue.
How can anyone wonder why men cheat or leave these women?
I can hear it now! Liberated and new century women raging at me for making it seem that women are the sole deliverers of attitude, venom and character flaws. I can't say that women are the only bitches in relationships as there are plenty of dysfunctional, angry and damaged men as well, but this article isn't about men. Thats another article. This article is about the women who cast the evil eye and use their feminine wiles to trap married men just to break marriages up among many other efforts that are shocking at best and sickening at worst.
For many of these women, there aren't any men left to abuse and they wonder why, yet there seems to be a new man for every woohoo and coocoo available or so says Andy Cohen, producer of so many of these intellectually devoid shows on Bravo. Certainly, TLC, Lifetime and so many other women targeted networks can't get enough of these shows. The reality stars are being called nasty, rude and any number of insults that are true, yet they all act is if it is a shock. These shows make "Mean Girls" the movie look like a romp in the tulips.
Any women will tell you that they can be catty, back-stabbing, methodical about their revenge and other uniquely female attributes. These reality television shows highlight all that is wrong with relationships and this within wealthy families that seem only to focus on new ways to spend their money and show each-other up. Petty, ungrateful women who suck the life out of their husbands, no matter how disinterested and filled with a desire to avoid any contact with their wives.