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Why Women Fake Orgasm

Parents: Due to mature themes and explicit content, this article is not intended for children under the age of 18.

 

by Laura Dawn Lewis

The Situation
"Why are you waiting?" she asked between breaths as he continued to thrust inside her.  She could tell he wanted to cum, the veins on his forehead shown blue, strained as if to burst from his skin. He was sweating, intent and flush from excitement. 

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Women are as frustrated by this as you.

"You first," he panted, gritting his teeth in an attempt to control the forces taking over his body and scrambling his mind with an excruciating need to release.  Freedom was close, so close, yet she seemed so far away from the same.  Beneath him she again pleaded, "Darling, now! Explode!  Now, now, please!"

"No," he grimaces as his body connects, within and deeper.  "You haven't cum yet.  You first!"

But he doesn't know she never will.  Not like this. 

Inside, the pounding and fast friction for minutes at a time have dulled the nerve endings.  The only thing she feels is a numb pounding, vaguely painful now, increasing in intensity as each thrust crashes into her cervix.  Even her clitoris is useless, numbed too from the repetitive pounding.  To regain the feeling, she knows all must stop for at least a half hour or longer.  But she's set a precedence, too many times before.  Pressure, she's feeling it now, but not the physical kind.  The mental pressure to climax.  She must do it.  Somehow she must do it! TOP

He takes such pride in being the man able to break the "O" barrier, to give her such pleasure and relief.  He is her savior, her deliverer to ecstasy, virile, strong and loving.  She has no desire to love another, only he.  And, as concerned for her, he's postponing his own pleasure so she too can share. TOP

To cum, he's insisting.  An act of chivalry she both appreciates and dreads.  The harder she tries to comply, the more anxious and further from achievement she slides.  As her level of anxiety rises, her body begins to dry.  Yet another obstacle she now must overcome as the promise of deliverance slips further from her grasp.

These thoughts scatter about her head as he continues to do his best to please her.  She's now tired, becoming sore and fatigued, but so wants to make him happy.  Her reward? The ear to  ear grin and happy exhaustion he emanates, proud in his accomplishment to once again please her.  How can she take that away from him? It's one of her favorite moments, that satisfied grin of a happy little boy, so proud of himself and the liquid masterpiece he's painted.  TOP

She will not take that away.  Next time she'll try harder, focus more on the tactile within.  Next time.  There is always next time.

Closing her eyes, she begins the dance.  The breathing, the words, the panting, moaning and sweat.  She knows the faster she breathes, the more oxygen she takes in, and with it her skin will glow.  To a young man, not well schooled in women, this would be enough.  The proper cry, a clutch and tensing of the leg muscles, to a young man she' s cum.  Take a man with experience and he will see through this, as will she because she now knows what it means to cum.  Pulsating within, she uses her Keigle muscles to grab at him, pressing and releasing in quick succession.  She's learn to do this through sessions with herself and has perfected the art to near science.  She knows she can orgasm;  she knows what it feels like and has studied her body to recreate this for him.  To tell him differently, she hasn't the courage.
 

What's Going On?
The situation described in this story is played out by millions of women around the world every night.  It is a secret most are too afraid to tell, yet as women we talk about it amongst ourselves. 

 

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Something to think about...


Where do most people  first gather their opinions about what "making love" should look and sound like?


For men and women, the first time they see it being done is usually in a movie.  But consider this.  Re-enactment in a film is dramatized to keep the attention of the viewers...and the actors are acting, in other words, they're faking it.


I
n essence, by learning through films or other dramatizations, what is really learned is how to effectively fake orgasm and mimic making love..

 
Men Complain:
"She just lays there"
 

Yes, some women do not enjoy sex and do just lay like a dead fish  from foreplay to copulation. 
But for most, this is the most effective way to achieve orgasm. By quieting down to near still as you begin to enter she is able to cultivate the maximum sensation within.. 

If helping her to achieve orgasm is your objective, less movement is better.  By being still or near still she can focus her complete attention on what is going on inside.  The lighter the touch, the more intense the sensation within.  It's a gradual building of intensity and a very fragile state, both physically and mentally, (she has to be able to focus all of her attention on each movement you make)  Lose control and start pumping fast before she climaxes and you'll numb the nerve endings.   The trick is, (if you like fast and furious) to wait until she begins to climax.  Then go for it
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