Women: Advice From Our Male Readers on
How to tell your partner you're having trouble
reaching orgasm
Listed in order received
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 Male (35)
Single
Just say it
Male (21)
Single
Straight out, she has to be honest. if she told me directly there would
be no problem.
Male
(29) Married
To tell if one is faking an orgasm, you should placed a finger into the
rectum. During an orgasm the sphinceter muscle will constrict and
tighten, if she is ""faking it"" this muscle will not constrict.
Male
(27) Single
Being honest
Male (40)
Married
She should do it during a good mood time and tell me , 'Honey, I have
something to discuss with you.......'.
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Female (39)
Single
When I think about how many times I have left a man because he hasn't
satisfied me...it is atrocious. I used to think men just didn't care.
What is so hard in understanding how important the clitoris is!!!
Male (24)
Single
I think women should be honest, because 100% of men want to
please their woman. If there are things we can do to make it happen
every time, trust me we will do it!!!!! Our objective can
now be turned to pleasing the woman. Let us know and you could be on
your way to pure sexual freedom. Oh and ladies relax in the sack please,
we are not picking out your naked flaws while we are having sex with
you. Relaxation will clear your mind and help lead you to an orgasm. |
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Male: (48)
Married I would like her to give better instructions as to what she
would like as a turn on, no holds barred.
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Male: (25):
Single Well first of all, massaging the clitoris is
thought to be in just pornographic movies. When in fact the man should
be penetrating her vaginally from the back, while assisting in massaging
the clitoris, or having the women to be on top. And since women don't
like to be on top because of low self-confidence, this is part to the
problem. Lets not just learn to deal with the fact, but try and change
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Male: (25):
Single I believe my Girlfriend is faking orgasms with
me. I would love it if she would tell me. The sooner the better. I take
pride in satisfying my partner and believe open communication is an
important factor. Faking an orgasm is like cheating yourself out of a
possible good thing. I would appreciate the honesty and be open to
talking about the subject, hopefully in a non hurtful way.
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Male (28): Single Plain and simple tell me: this way I have no pleasure... Do it like
this, or make something like this or foreplay for the whole day so I can
have "NEED" to be with you... etc etc...
I think the game of love is shared best if we try no to GUESS what the
partner wants more than to KNOW what the partner wants...
My 2 cents....
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