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2) Embarrassment
There are two types of embarrassment. The first
is the amount of time it takes for most women to reach
orgasm with a partner...around 35-40 minutes. The second
is based upon credibility, even if she wants to address
the issue. How do you tell a man you've been with
for months or years that you've been faking it the entire
time?
3) Didn't realize she was faking it
In Thelma & Louise, there is a classic scene in
the coffee shop where Gena Davis comes in flush after a
night of sex with Brad Pitt. She says to Susan Sarandon,
"Now I finally know what all of the fuss is about!"
Many women truly believe they cum,
based upon the build-up sensations, which are quite
powerful and titillating. Then one day, they
suddenly learn what it really is either through
happenstance, masturbation or a savvy lover. Until
then, she honestly does not realize she's been faking it. TOP
4) Not in the mood,
but want to
satisfy him
Part of being a good wife is keeping your husband
happy. Sometimes he's in the mood, but she's not.
By faking it, she can leave him satisfied and fulfilled
and move onto what she was doing. TOP
5) Ready to wrap it up
Like the story at the beginning of this article,
faking it is the quickest way to end the encounter.
That doesn't mean she is not enjoying herself. Quite
the contrary. It usually means she's just getting tired,
sore or has too many other things on her mind to devote
complete attention to the act and she doesn't see herself
achieving orgasm. It's a graceful exit. TOP
6) Guilt
This is where chivalry turns to guilt. She knows
her lover adores her and may even cherish the fact he will
not cum until she does. But, this places a
tremendous amount of pressure on her to perform.
This pressure turns to anxiety, the anxiety turns to panic
and now she is so worked up over having an orgasm, she
can't. Since this is his policy, he may never cum
again! Out of guilt, she concedes in an effort to
satisfy him. TOP
7) Fear
Some women are just afraid to cum, or afraid they
never will. Some believe God will punish them for
enjoying sex, practicing fellatio or even
self-exploration, while others believe there is something
wrong with themselves. If everyone else can, why can't
she? She's afraid to tell you because she's afraid
you will see her as flawed and less of a woman. She
believes you will stop loving her and not want her because
she can't be pleased.
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