Tricks and Techniques

Idea Board (Issues One)

Shy: 

"It's amazing what can be erotic.  One morning my husband was lying in bed.  He needed to get up but was so tired having only had three hours of sleep.  I sat beside him on the bed and gently placed his hand between both of mine.  With palms together, I stroked the top of his hand with my free hand, lightly as if stroking the forehead of sick child.  We sat like this for nearly fifteen minutes in silence and not saying a word.  Yet, the moment was magical and the stroking of his hand is now something I do whenever I feel he needs comfort and assurance." 

Submitted by YT, Sidney, Australia

Curious: 

"To expand foreplay a little longer, I use a silk scarf and gently wrap it around the top of my boyfriend's testicles.  While I'm going down on him, I gently tug upwards.  The sensation of the silk and lifting while I attend to business drives him crazy!"

Submitted by JS, Malibu

Adventurous: 

"The G-spot, it's quite easy to find.  Hook your finger upwards inside a woman's vagina.  It's about two inches in. It feels spongy and is about the size of a nickel.  I do this during exploration and then begin lightly scratching it with the nail on my middle or index finger.  There are two tricks to this.  First, use minimum pressure to get maximum effect (that itch you just can't seem to scratch is the feeling you want her to having). At the same time I'll press her thigh into the bed so she can't move it.  This puts you in control, which most women like.  Keeping her still focuses all of her attention on the action,  she needs this focus to fully orgasm. Too many distractions and she won't cum. Within six or seven minutes of light scratching, she's squirming like crazy.  One more minute and she cums.  This also works well while going down on her."

Submitted by AG, Atlanta

Next time you give your lover a back rub, try using a moisten loofa mitt over oil.  This combines a back rub with a back scratch.

Use those leftover sugar free candy canes to probe when going down on a woman.  The mint flavoring stimulates the nerves...and it tastes pretty good too! Sugar reacts with the chemicals in a woman's lubricant and can cause severe yeast infections. Make sure they are sugar free....

Want to put both of you in the mood?  Bake a pumpkin pie.  The smell of pumpkin pie is cited by men as their number one aphrodisiac scent.  Pumpkin pie hits number three with women behind number one Baby Oil and number two, Good & Plenty candy.   Go figure!