Her husband should know because he deserves the right to choose about whether to stay with a cheating wife, and his sexual health may depend upon it.

But why not do a story about the military member cheating during TDY's and extended duty assignments. Like Korea is pretty much a guaranteed cheating destination!

MR (F) 26
Shaw AFB, SC, USA

Response: We haven't done a story on that yet because we haven't gotten a Q&A in on it and it sounds like you might want to submit one? The fact is, cheating is never a good idea, especially once married.  There is a reason adultery is one of the Ten Commandments; there is no good way around it once it happens. And just being someplace like Korea, should never be an excuse. 

The tough thing with infidelity is: by telling, do you do more harm then good?  A lot of times, it hurts more to tell then to allow an isolated incident to pass.  The best thing to do is don't cheat in the first place.  If a person doesn't cheat, they never have to make this decision. Thanks for your comments!