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10 Most Incredible Mistakes Smart Singles Make
2005
List Developed by “Seminars for Singles,” Sunday
Evening August 14, 2005
1. Singles rely on destiny and
luck to put themselves into a wonderful relationship and don’t
take the responsibility for making a good choice, being
proactive or developing healthy relationship skills.
2. Singles set themselves up
for an unbalanced life, (i.e.: a roller coaster ride), by
bonding and committing too soon.
3. Singles spend so much time
looking for the “right” person they miss out on other
opportunities to spend time with really wonderful, decent people
who might turn out to be “the one.”
4. Singles often settle for
sex when they really want intimacy, connection, friendship,
comfort and support.
5. Singles play it so safe
they rarely connect with anyone, they’re too afraid of
rejection.
6. Singles don’t learn from
their mistakes and don’t invest or work on themselves.
7. Singles focus on their
short-term feelings (chemistry) and forget to see if core
beliefs are a match.
8. Singles get their hearts
broken because they “see what they want to see” and give their
hearts away to strangers.
9. Singles believe too many
myths, like there is a “perfect person” for them and “there’ll
be no conflict when its right.”
10. Singles run away from
problems rather than working things out and having a mature
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