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Second, know for a certainty that this
attitude can be overcome with a little finesse and strategic
psychology.
Third, don’t apologize, or make excuses,
for your interest. Just humbly accept the initial lack of
reciprocation shown towards you as your token of respect for
their right to love whomever they want.
Fourth, don’t push harder, but don’t give
up either. After backing off for a short while, assert
yourself in friendship towards them. They may still be a
little mistrustful of your motives, but once they become
convinced that you fully accept being their friend, without
needing to be their lover, they will then in due course
accept your friendship. This, in turn, will become the
foundation over time to eventually establish true romantic
love.
Fifth, cultivate their FRIENDSHIP by not
only being supportive emotionally to them, but by continuing
to demonstrate your own emotional independence and, over time,
even a bit of elusiveness on your part. When friendship is
properly cultivated in this way it will eventually ripen into
true romantic love. Once you understand the process, no fish
can resist being caught, even though the fish was not yet
made who wanted to be caught!!
You see, if you handle this right the
fish never even realizes for the most part that it is being
reeled in! This is because whenever the fish shows a lot of
fight and resistance, the wise fisherman gives out just enough
line to reassure it that he or she is still free. The
fisherman never exerts any real force or pull in an all out
battle of wills, until the fish is so tired of resisting and
fleeing that it doesn’t really care anymore to resist.
Now, go thou and do likewise!
Happy fishing!
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