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And then one day, boom, you get hit
right in the face with an attraction for someone who you know
would be the icing on your cake, if only they could feel that
same way about you, too. Yes, if only…
But, invariably, they won’t. At least
that’s what your experience in life has proven to you up until
this point in time. Because as attractive as you have been
throughout your life to the many who may have wanted you,
you’ve learned that the minute you start wanting someone in
particular, they won’t want you back!
It’s like some perverse law decreed in
the Courts of the Universe, before the world began:
“People may only be
romantically interested in you until you start liking them
back.”
For some reason, it appears that you may
have all the adoration and love you can stand, but it is
destined to always be one-sided. The ones you don’t
want adore you, but the ones you do want never want you
back!! Every time you narrow your interests to one particular
heartthrob, they will suddenly and without explanation lose
any possible feelings of reciprocation for you.
What’s going on here, for heaven’s sake?
Is it just some big cosmic joke?
The answer is…No.
What has actually been happening is a
totally predictable phenomenon of human behavior, once you
understand the psychological underpinnings of it. For this
scene of human romance that has played itself out, over and
over, countless times in the intense drama of the human race,
is actually the product of simple psychological laws.
The bad news is that the pain has been so
great for so many who have lived and died in the throes of
rejection and self-doubt because of it.
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The good news is that the phenomenon,
once properly understood, is controllable and…reversible!
That’s right. You understand me correctly. What I’m saying
is that the despair known by rejected lovers since the world
first began need not be your destiny! Knowledge of why people
reject one another in romantic situations is key to empowering
you to prevent it from ever sabotaging your hopes again. And
over the next several minutes I’m going to outline for you in
this brief article what exactly causes the rejection
phenomenon so many have thought to be a puzzle without a
solution, and hand you the keys to winning the one you want.
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