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GOOD KIDS GONE BAD

They come from fine homes. They get excellent grades. They're popular, nice-looking and fun. So what drives these "typical" teens to armed robbery, murder and other violent crimes?


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Adrianne was a spunky, popular 16-year-old from Mansfield, Texas, a suburb of Fort Worth. On December 4, 1995, she slipped out of her house to meet a friend. She was never seen alive again. The next day, a farmer discovered her body along a rural country road. She had been clubbed over the head and shot twice with a 9-mm handgun.

Who committed this horrific murder? A serial killer? A rapist? A seasoned criminal let out on parole too soon? No. The suspects, David Graham and Diane Zamora, are two squeaky-clean teens from middle class families who were high school seniors at the time of the murder. Apparently Graham had a one-time sexual fling with Jones after giving her a ride from a sporting event. Then, his girlfriend found out. Zamora was so enraged with jealousy, she decided killing Jones was the only way to save their relationship. TOP

In a confession published in the Dallas Morning News, Graham wrote, "I didn't have any harsh feelings for Adrianne, but no one could stand between me and Diane." So the two plotted her murder, timing it exactly a month after the sexual encounter. Graham apparently called Jones and asked her out on a date. She came willingly into his car, which he then drove to an isolated area. Zamora, hiding in the backseat, allegedly clubbed Jones over the head with a barbell, and Graham then shot her in the head to make sure she was dead.

The two young lovers hid the crime for almost a year. Graham headed off to the Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, and Zamora to the Naval Academy in Annapolis, Maryland. But now their college careers--and their entire futures--are on hold as they sit in jail awaiting trial. They have been charged with capital murder and could face life imprisonment.

Graham and Zamora are now in jail. They have been charged with capital murder and could face life imprisonment.

How could such "nice" kids do something so incomprehensibly terrible? This is what their parents, friends and the police are now wondering. But as shocking as this story is, Graham and Zamora aren't the only "good" teens committing bad crimes. TOP
 

Star Athletes Turned Bank Robbers

Last year, for example, two top athletes from Southern California, Todd Hoult and Tabetha Garibay Hoult, pleaded guilty to bank robbery charges. He was a former wrestling champ at Agoura High School. She was the star forward for Pepperdine University's soccer team. The couple, recently married in a courthouse wedding, pulled up to a Coast Federal Bank in Westlake Village in December of 1995 in a gold Corvette, according to police. Hoult apparently hopped out--his face hidden by a black ski mask, hooded sweatshirt and sunglasses--and ran inside. Brandishing a semiautomatic pistol, he then ordered two or three bank employees on the floor, vaulted over the counter and demanded that the two tellers put up their hands. He stole $8,925, then ran back into the Corvette. Tabetha sped off. He is now serving 57 months in jail; his wife is serving eight months of house arrest for driving the getaway car.

Hoult apparently was no stranger to crime--he had already confessed to committing a string of neighborhood burglaries in 1992, and was on probation for his crimes. But Tabetha was a different story. During the sentencing phase of the trial, she reportedly told the judge that her part in the crime was "out of character."

Such misdeeds prove that "crimes know no social or economic boundaries," says Alexandria, Virginia-based clinical psychologist Stanton E. Samenow, Ph.D., author of Before It's Too Late: Why Some Kids Get Into Trouble and What Parents Can Do About It . TOP

TEEN CRIME TRENDS

All kinds of youth crime are up, according to the U.S. Department of Justice:

  • After more than a decade of relative stability, the juvenile violent crime arrest rate increased more than 50 percent between 1988 and 1994.
  • Female juvenile violent crime arrests more than doubled during between 1985 and 1994.
  • From 1985 to 1994, the percentage increases in arrests have been greater for juveniles than adults.
  • If trends continue, juvenile arrests for violent crime will more than double by the year 2010.

These statistics, however, include crimes motivated by poverty, gang activity and drugs. To discover the reasons why kids like Graham and Zamora go wrong, you have to dig deeper.
 

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