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The Video
Exhibitionists
Is this healthy behavior
or a cry for attention?
 

By Bruce Haring
Featuring Dr. Mark

Ana Voog shared an intimate night in November with a boyfriend — and a worldwide audience.

 
As Reported by
 

Thousands on the Internet followed the singer/songwriter's unscheduled show in 30-second increments via still images posted automatically by four cameras Voog put in her bedroom and apartment.

''I didn't plan it at all,'' she says of that night, which continues to draw fans to her site (www.anavoog.com).

Voog's Web site promotes her first album, Anavoog.com, set for release on MCA Records. But a growing number of others with no apparent reason are putting their uncensored lives on line as well.

When tiny, inexpensive Internet-ready video cameras were introduced four years ago, users aimed them at fishbowls and coffeepots. But now they're increasingly being trained on people — sleeping, eating and, yes, having sex.

Connectix, a San Mateo, Calif.-based manufacturer of Net cameras starting at under $100, says 25% of PCs will have digital video cameras by 2001, making videoconferencing part of everyday life. It has sold more than 600,000 QuickCams. TOP

Web site designer Jennifer Ringley is perhaps the most famous of the netcam pioneers. Her popular Jennicam site (www.jennicam.org) has drawn intensive media attention.

''When I first started it (two years ago), I was really shy — I would wear two nightgowns and run to the other side of the room to get changed. But after two weeks I started doing things more naturally.''

That includes occasional nudity and sexual activity. But Ringley insists she's doing a public service.

''On TV, you see all these people living perfect lives with perfect hair and perfect friends, and people start to feel really inadequate,'' she says. ''I walk around all the time with bad hair or stuff in my teeth. And I really think it makes people feel better to know they're not the only ones not leading glamorous lives.''

The Jennicam has made Ringley a minor celebrity, appearing on TV and other mainstream media.

She also has been held up as an example of what's bad about the Net. Leo Hindery, the president of cable giant TCI, described her activities to shocked Roman Catholic bishops at a recent meeting where they were considering religious uses of the Net.

Hindery said the Jennicam site has ''attracted a cult following of voyeurs. It may sound pathetic, but people actually relate to Jenni. They feel they know her personally — so much so that men worldwide regard Jenni as their virtual girlfriend.''

Peter Crabb, psychology professor at Pennsylvania State University, Abington, has studied camcorders' effects on behavior and says that watching people on line may erode the social taboos against staring or other voyeuristic behavior in public. TOP

''Do we want to be turned into a society of exhibitionists?'' Crabb asks. ''Maybe we're already there, judging from Jerry Springer.''

The need for recognition drives some people to eschew judgment and common sense to the point where ''they will do almost anything'' to be noticed, says Mark Goulston, a counselor with the Time Warner Family Crisis and Counseling Line. ''One of the problems of people who have temporary fame is if you get a taste of being somebody and then go back to being just anybody, it's like being nobody.''

Ringley sees no end to her camera tour, and for Voog, the Anacam is a source of constant amusement. ''It's just so funny to me. . . . It's like, more than the people who are watching me, I'm the one who's actually being entertained.''

And it has become part of her life. ''If you wake up in the middle of the night or something with an anxiety attack, it's really nice to know people from all over the world are all there, to comfort you or talk about anything you want. It's just really cool.''
 

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