I really believe one of the biggest
things you left out of "Love over 40" and the 10 secrets of happiness is a
relationship with Christ. It seems to me if you leave out that one
important element in you and your spouses relationship then that leaves
the door open for other things to creep into your relationship. It's
like a pyramid with you on one side and your spouse on the other and God
at the top. As you and your spouse grow closer to God you also grow closer
to each other.