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FITNESS FOR COUPLES

Workout Etiquette
by Chris Murray
 

You've thought about it for days, weeks, months or maybe even years. Now you’ve decided to just do it.  You are going to get into shape and work out.  The first thing that you need to do is find a place to go like your local Health Club or school gym. 
 

 

In this new environment most people feel a bit out of their element at first. This passes once you start to understand the ways of the natives.  Most will wait to see if you make it through the 6 week mark as 85% of new gym members never stick to their workout this long.  Once you make the 6 weeks, you'll be surprised at how friendly everyone can be.

There are 3 steps that you can do to help your self and others around you feel more comfortable.  After all if you don’t feel comfortable you’re not going to go back.

Know what you’re doing

Gym Etiquette

Pencil it in

Some people don’t go to the gym out of embarrassment.  They don’t want to be the smallest, weakest or the fattest.  Since you change your whole workout program every 2 to 3 months you’re always starting a new program. This means everyone is at the same level as you are.  In shape or out of shape your muscles still need to be trained the same.  The only difference is that the people at the gym have been doing it longer. TOP

Another issue to remember is that people like to help people that are willing to do the work.  Even if you are obese, when the patrons see you coming in and trying week after week, they will begin to encourage you, cheer you on and help you.  Within a few months you'll find you have a new family and a tremendous support system.  They don't see you as fat.  They see you as someone with the courage and the guts to change.  And watching you is inspiring to them. After a length of time you’ll get bigger and stronger or lean and slimmer. People cheer for winners.  Don't walk in afraid.  Walk in knowing you're a winner and inspire yourself and those around you.  Walk in and give the regulars someone to cheer by sticking with it and showing what you're made of. TOP

Know what you’re doing

The most important concept to remember is know the exercises you’re doing.  This means understand what it does, the proper execution and the correct amount of weight versus repetition to achieve the results you want.  The best way to do this is to have a professional personal trainer spend a session with you. A trainer will be able to help you understand and do the exercises correctly, at least in a basic sense.  Trainers are expensive and not for everyone.  Even without a lot of cash  there are still ways you can help train yourself: TOP

              I.     Practice the exercise first.  Start each exercise with one slow set (about 6 repetitions) using very light weight, if any.  Use a slow consistent speed and do not throw the weights. Behave as you would  using real weights.  As you do this “practice set” take a mental note of the position of your joints. There should never be any sideways pressure on any joint.

           II.     You may not know the name of it but try to feel the muscle that’s flexing the most with each exercise.  Once you’ve found it, this will be your target muscle for that exercise.  You can position yourself and the weight, to isolate that muscle as best as possible.

         III.     Don’t feel that you need to compete with the other guy.  Too much weight is just that, TOO MUCH WEIGHT!  It hurts your body and makes you look foolish.  Fitness experts know you're using too much and it makes you look like an amateur, not a stud. A good rule of thumb is if your doing as much or more weight than some one who is in better shape then you, go ask someone (preferably a licensed trainer) what your doing wrong.  If you isolate a muscle then you don’t need to use as much weight, and in turn it will be a more effective exercise.

        IV.     If you find that the weight you’ve added is too much, take some off.  Men tend to over do the amount of weight on chest and arm equipment; using a 45 lbs plate on each side of a 45 lb bar comes to 135 pounds.  135 pound may not seem like a lot but at 4 sets of 6 repetitions it gets heavy fast. Adjusting the weight your using is okay and expected. TOP

You see many people using several weight on any given machine.  The most notorious for this is the thigh and butt machines and the woman who use them.  Simply working a muscle does not make it toned, a strong muscle is strong; it may not be shapely.  In other words it does not necessarily affect the fat surrounding it.  Read The Female Body& How to Reduce Body FatWomen that work out like this only make the area bigger, not thinner.  She is defeating her purpose of slimming and toning.  Know this and don't follow her example.  She's working harder but you are working smarter. TOP

When you first start to work out or you’re restarting after a time off, it feels like everyone is looking at you from the corner of his or her eyes.  This is just not true, yes some people are looking but they’re just looking to see if you’re looking at them.  You’re there for a purpose so keep focused between your sets try not to let your own doubts about what your doing make you lessen your intensity.  If your doing the workouts wrong or right you will still see the most dramatic changes in your body in the first 2 months.

Now that your comfortable with what you’re doing, you need to know how to act.  TOP

Gym Etiquette

Below is a general list of rules or a guideline for making the most of your gym visit and not becoming a hassle to the owner or other patrons. 

Yes some of these seem obvious. You'd be surprised by how many people have extremely poor gym etiquette. TOP

1.      After you use a piece of equipment remove your sweat from it (with your own towel).

2.      Many people socialize this is fine but keep in mind that some people don’t have much time to workout and that they may need to use the machine that you are on.  Try not to include the whole room with your stories.

3.      On equipment with removable weight like the bench or leg presses, when your finished remove all plates except one (you can remove that last one too but it is not expected).

4.      When you work out hard you may get cottonmouth.  Keep in mind you are inside don’t spit.  This is true for the water fountain as well. Please don't spit in the water fountain.

5.      Don’t throw the weights down at the end of your set.  This is very dangerous for others and your joints.

6.      If you work out in the mornings you’ll find that most people shower after the going to the gym.  This is acceptable but do remember to brush your teeth first. You'll be exhaling around others.  Some deodorant doesn’t hurt either.

7.      This one I would think is a given but it does need to be mentioned.  Clean gym clothes are always expected; it keeps you from developing acne (from the dirt and sweat) and makes other people happier to be around you. 

8.      Jeans should not be used to work out in.  It looks bad and jeans may keep you from getting into your work out. Besides the buttons/rivets on your pockets might cause damage to the upholstery.       TOP

Pencil it in

For the first couple of weeks don’t try to “feel the burn”. This will only make you burn out. If you are female and don't want to end up looking like a man once in shape, read The Female Body& How to Reduce Body Fat. Women that want to remain womanly should never "feel the burn". Instead try to keep it light. After all you have a lifetime to get better at it. 

A schedule is a great thing to keep you on your fitness track but keep it flexible, what I mean is if you miss a work out or a cut your routine short don’t get discouraged, just pick it up again the next day.  I’ve seen many people wait months to start working out because they want to start a “schedule” only to be forced to miss a day a week into it and not go back.  This is your life what does it matter if you miss a day, or you skip a muscle group?  You’ve got a long time to make it up.  So don’t wait for things to be right before you start, you know next year, month, or even next week.  Stop kidding yourself do it or don’t, it’s up to you.

 
 
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