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Sarah, I can totally understand what you mean. I am currently facing the
same problem. I thought marriage was around the corner for me as we recently
bought a condo together, which will be ready in 2 years time. We have talked
about the condo so frequently until one day, he gave me a harsh lecture that
he is not ready to get married. I am not expecting a wedding now but I
thought it would be within 2 years time. You see, in my country and culture,
it's not recommended that couples cohabitate and not get married. I guess I
should not have assumed. I felt like it was a slap on my face asking me to
face reality. And I ask myself, what is the learning experience behind this?
Or is God trying to make him learn something? I guess, one way for me and us
women is to redefine our goals and focus on ourselves. Marriage has always
been a part of my dream. I love this guy and I want to take the relationship
to the next stage. But when he said aloud that he didn't want to and was not
ready, I felt like he broke my heart and dream. I am not angry at him as I
have no right to be. What would you ladies do if you were me?
AC FEMALE 25
Kuala Lumpur, Selangor, Malaysia
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