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I love him very much, yet he is not open
with his feelings. Lately he said that he can't handle two
relationships, but that he doesn't want me to go. We can't be
together for some time, and he wants us to be "close friends".
His definition of close friends is casual sex whenever he
wants and me not dating others. I fell in love with him; I
know the right thing to do is to kick him to the curve, but
how do I deal with what I feel for him specially when I see
him everyday, and no matter what I say he will not go away? I
don't now if I want him to leave but on the other hand I
consider our situation equal to dating a married man. I
consider myself too much of a woman to accept his terms. What
can I do?
illusiongirl23
(F) 23
Waterbury, Connectict
6 months
Dear Illusiongirl23:
I can tell you realize that this is a very bad situation for
you. The
person you're dating is not available, and he shouldn't be
dating at all. He hasn't cleared up what's going on in his
other relationship. Pay attention to your own good advice, and
get out of that relationship now.
I understand that you have feelings for him, but your only
choice here is to end it until he resolves this other
relationship. Think about this: if you were the woman he was
living with, would he be dating someone else?
He's using you, not caring about you. Don't be his friend or
his lover. Let him go, until he's worthy of a relationship
with you.
Dr. Tina
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