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She never gives straight
answers, she always answers with a "Sure" or a "Ok" or something like
that. She never shares her feelings or tells me how she feels about me. I was really
hoping that maybe you could maybe give me some advice as to how to help her be open with
me and let me know how she feels.
Dating a Wall
M (29), Oakland, CA
Dear Dating a Wall:
There are many people who are uncomfortable sharing their
feelings and talking a lot -- problems arise when couples have differences about how much
talking is enough. Here are some do's and don'ts for opening up the conversation
between you.
If you allow enough opportunity, and make it very
pleasant and simple to talk to you, you'll create the best possible communication.
If your partner is reluctant to talk, you can encourage her by responding positively to
whatever she says, and by being interested in her thoughts and feelings.
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