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Attracting the Love You Want

The worst thing you can do if you’re feeling lonely and desperate is to start dating. You will attract all the wrong kinds of partners for all the wrong reasons.

Three Little Changes That Ignite Your Dating Life

By the time I reached age 30 I'd had several long-term relationships, three marriage proposals and my share of frustration and heartache. Though I had no problem attracting men, I wasn't attracting the type of men I wanted.

How do I Meet Someone
when I'm over 30?

A look at how people over thirty meet someone and begin dating.

16 Tips for Dating Successfully
as a Single Parent

As a single parent, you probably have so little free time that dating seems an impossible task. Yet, single parents are dating in unprecedented numbers, so if you're looking for another "head of household" to date, you'll find one. As a responsible parent, you'll want to be very cautious about whom you date and eventually bring home for the safety and well-being of your child(ren). You may feel guilty or unsure about whether dating is OK.

How to Make Yourself a God(ess) in the Eyes of the One You Want!

This detailed series tells you exactly what you need to do to attract the man or woman of your dreams for good!

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Understanding the opposite sex

Masculine or Feminine Energy

In our article on relationship covenants we discussed the need for one party to be masculine energy and the other to be feminine energy in order for the relationship to build easily and to the splendid satisfaction of both.

The 8 Stages of Intimacy

A Couples Company Exclusive! If you've ever wondered why your relationships break-up, or are trying to figure out where the issues are, the 8 Stages of Intimacy will show you how to figure it out and what to do about it.

Why You Don't Have to Be Good Looking or Rich to Win at Dating

Most people feel insecure about themselves to some degree or another. While some refer to this feeling as an "inferiority" complex, it really could more accurately be called a "vulnerability complex."

Narcissism: What It Is & How to Recognize It

Lucky people avoid ever knowing or being under the influence of a narcissistic personality. Most people discover this personality or behavioral disorder the hard way through the living hell it makes of one's life.

What a Man Really Wants

Though primarily addressed to the women, most men who happen to feel drawn to read this article will find themselves doing so with a touch of curiosity. Of course, they think they already know what a man wants and are curious as to whether I am going to say something different or not.

What a Woman Really Wants

I promised you that we would follow up last year’s What A Man Really Wants with an article to balance the score.

Why Don't Men Talk Like Women Do?

We may technically speak the same language, but often how we express our thoughts is way different.

Taking the next step

How to Get a Man to the Altar

For some women, “putting out” just isn’t an issue for them. Maybe it isn’t for you, either. But if you are tired of the game and really want the promise of love within a covenant, keep reading.

7 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married

Think you and your lover have what it takes to get married? It's time to ask some questions! The following 7 questions will give you an idea if this is the one or if it is time to move on.

Apathetic Loved One?

Years ago there was a hit song by Bonnie Raitt called “I Can’t Make You Love Me”. In one of the most poignant songs about unrequited love that I have ever heard, Raitt both wrote and sang a verbal picture of a one-sided relationship going nowhere fast.

When the One You Want
Doesn't Want You Back

Before you’re smitten, you can feel so free and on top of the world. Things are going just great!! Even though you’re single, you’re popular with your friends. You’re happy.

The Signs of Emotional Blackmail

Most people use Emotional Blackmail on each other from time-to-time. People in healthy relationships call each other on it and set boundaries.

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